[強化自我需要的是自信、勇氣和意志]
余澹富說：
「千萬不要懷疑你的自我價值！」
這句說話鏗鏘悅耳，擲地有聲，屬於高級的語言藝術，
亦是黑白兩道都奉為佳臬的金句，
因為沒有人再會追究「甚麼是自我？」
「自我是指身體嗎？是指 ego 嗎？是指心靈嗎？」
「甚麼是自我價值？」
更遑論「如何去找出自我價值？」
There’s nothing more attractive than
someone with passion for something,
who looks at things positively and
is always seeking to better themselves.
Always remember that a bitter word
may wreck the life of a future thug and
a loving word may heal and bless him.
Remember that even thugs welcome
unconditional love and acceptance.
( Jason Ling )
Winners make a habit of manufacturing their own
positive expectations in advance of the event.
( Brian Tracy )
大貪官當時所需要的依然是自信。
由於他清楚明白有自信未必會成功，
但是沒有自信就一定不會成功，
所以下面這些金句全都刻骨銘心地打進他的腦海裡，
他一面讀，一面猛地點頭讚賞：
Always remember that you are absolutely unique.
Just like everyone else.
( Margaret Mead )
Believe in yourself and all that you are.
Know that there is something inside you
that is greater than any obstacle.
( Christian D. Larson )
Never underestimate your own strength.
You were born for a purpose and
are blessed with the power to achieve it.
( Leon Brown )
You were born with potential.
You were born with goodness and trust.
You were born with ideals and dreams.
You were born with greatness.
You were born with wings.
You are not meant for crawling, so don’t.
You have wings.
Learn to use them and fly.
( Rumi )
To accomplish great things,
we must not only act, but also dream;
not only plan, but also believe.
( Anatole France )
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.
live the life you have imagined.
( Henry David Thoreau )
The greatest pleasure in life is doing
what people say you cannot do.
( Walter Bagehot )
The happiest people in the world are those
who feel absolutely terrific about themselves,
and this is the natural outgrowth of accepting
total responsibility for every part of their life.
( Brian Tracy )
余澹富又說：
作家梁鳳儀女士在《有鳳來儀》的報章專欄，
寫過一篇文章叫做「難以承受的輕」，她指出：
「最最最無謂和不應該的就是以個人標準加諸別人身上，
硬要以自己的水平以決定別人的價值。」
我認為非常有道理，
她這句話剛好可以用來對付別人對大貪官的指責。
To be yourself in a world that is
constantly trying to make you something else
is the greatest accomplishment.
( Ralph Waldo Emerson )
而令大貪官最開心的，還是這一句金句：
When a person really desires something,
all the universe conspires to help
that person to realize his dream.
( Paulo Coelho )
余澹富繼續說：
大貪官是奮鬥心強，而且非常刻苦耐勞的人，
所以他其次所需要的，就是增強勇氣和意志！
Your “I can” is more important than your IQ.
( Robin Sharma )
Whatever your mind can conceive, it can achieve.
( Napoleon Hill )
Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.
( Goethe )
Some succeed because they are destined to,
but most succeed because they are determined to.
( Henry Van Dyke )
Wake up every morning and tell yourself :
” I can do this！ “
余澹富說：
千萬不要忽視自我催眠所能提供的正能量。
You should always have unconditional positive self-regard.
所以我教大貪官每天至少誦讀下面的說話一次：
The greatest challenge in life
is discovering who you are.
The second greatest is
being happy with what you find.
Tell yourself:
You are important.
You are strong.
You are lovable.
You are worthwhile.
You value yourself.
You love yourself and other people
just the way you are, including all
your thoughts and emotional reactions.
You are worthy of great things.
You can be who you really are.
You are the master of your destiny.
You are confident and self-assured.
Everything will work out fine.
Things will get better.
The best is yet to come.
You deserve it.
You will get what you want.
You know what you have to do.
You can do this.
The time is now. Just do it.
You have the passion, the courage
and the persistence to venture
further than everybody else.
So you are bound to succeed.
正能量就是這樣子產生的。
後來我才發現希特勒在門後偷聽，開心到彈起！
據說希特勒是次訪港主要為香港打氣，
鼓勵未來的希特勒，希望能夠薪火相傳，
據說希特勒聽完余澹富的演說後，非常高興，
立即吩咐下屬來年頒發「大止驚昏章」給余澹富。
於是次年，余澹富就成為了「大止驚昏賢」！
無恥和說謊，何嘗不需要勇氣？
何嘗不需要思考？何嘗不需要鍛煉語言偽術？
拿出自己自信的一面，不用改變自己迎合別人：
我係我，忠於自己，問心無愧！
What is the meaning of life？
Whatever you want it to be.
( James Frey )
Why are you trying so hard to fit in,
when you’re born to stand out？
( Oliver James )
Tadao Hayashi《Just The Way You Are》